Dmitry Shepelev in the program “Let them talk,”
Shepeleva product will be on sale on 24 November. Lead is confident that his book will help many people who suffer from the disease that has left the life of his common-law wife. Share on television about what was their love story, how he manages to live after leaving Jeanne and how growing their little son, ventured first Shepelev. The studio program Andrei Malakhov “Let them talk,” the man began to talk about the personal tragedy that he had to endure. Book Dmitry Shepelev “Jeanne”. The first passages
Once in the guest chair, Dmitry Shepelev Andrey Malakhov greeted warmly and prepared to answer questions that are about one and a half years concern to the public.
“It’s really been very difficult years of my life – began his story broadcaster, remembering a time when Jeanne was still alive, but sick. – Especially the last year and a half after it was not Joan. Now, of course, I feel much better. Everything seems to start very slow, but to fall into place. “
Reflecting on the trials that have befallen his family, Shepelev stressed that asked myself many questions, the answers to which no one can find. The man convinced that he and Joan had only to accept the situation and start fighting.
“You know, of course, I ask myself,” what “and” why “- President said. – Exactly the same questions that are asked by all cancer patients when it comes to the matter. And it is obvious that these questions had no answers there. You can not answer why. We can not answer for that. Why is your beautiful wife is terminally ill. Why did this happen exactly when you just born baby. No answer to this question, unfortunately. Or perhaps fortunately. “
Malakhov said, who currently supports Dmitry and is always close to him and Plato. Shepelev convinced that if he did not continue to work, things might have gone very differently.
“Who really supported me all this time, it is, of course, my job. First of all my work, – he said. – Because only work allowed me to somehow escape from the thoughts swirling in my head. You wake up with them at night, you fall asleep with them, and you live with them every day. Only work can distract. Only work – life preserver. But the main thing, of course, son. Of course, Plato. This is the most important person to me now. “
Small increases Plato copy moms
Thanks to Plato, as the civilian spouse is an artist, he has managed to stay afloat and “Shrugged”.
“You see, when the kid next to you, and you in the long run with him one-on-one, you have no reason to pour himself a glass of wine once, you do not have the right to cry, you have no rights to the depression, you can not go anywhere. Allow yourself to relax, to give up on everything by hand. Go on a journey … Because you have a child. Because you’re my father. And you can not do anything that would have dropped the your credibility in the eyes of the child. So of course, I was saved by Plato “, – said the man.
Young father decided to show how to pass them with Plato normal day. Shepelev allowed the film crew, “Let Them Talk” to spend with the baby for several hours. So, early in the morning, father and son out of the house and headed for the car. Sitting in the car, a small Plato seatbelt. On the way, Dmitry asked the boy what he would like to eat for breakfast. He answered that he did not refuse would be from omelets and pizza with ham, to which his father replied, “You do not eat as much. Give something one – or a pizza, or omelets. Pizza for breakfast is not very good. “ – “I’m an omelet” – the kid said.
“In Plato’s great sense of humor. He knows how to amuse me. And I can laugh it. That is, we know how to lift each other up. it is very valuable for me. Therefore, we have a very easy relationship of trust. “
According Shepeleva, among them Jeanne’s son a great sense of humor
Previously, TV presenter said that Plato is growing very developed, active and smart. By the way, the kid is already perfect believes and knows all the letters of the alphabet. When the institution where the father and son having breakfast, the waiter brought a dish with a plate written in the name of the boy, he was able to read the first time, “Plato”.
“He has a pretty busy schedule, I think. Certainly in my childhood it was all a bit different. I was limited to a section of tennis and all. Plato and a half years goes to an English school. For me it is important that he is used to the English language from a young polish. This year, he appeared additional classes. Plato is engaged in gymnastics. And the more valuable and filled our weekend stay when we can slowly together to go to the pool, have breakfast alone spend time at our favorite cafe. This is the happiest, warmest days for me. “
The kid already knows the letters of the alphabet
According to the stories Shepeleva them with Jeanne Friske son is making great strides in the gymnastics classes. TV presenter said that the boy is growing very strong, and, as compared with peers, healthy physically prepared.
“He would just overcome shyness, and everything will be fine, – Dmitri says. – He is cool. I think he might even be able to engage in professional sports. Six months later, it’s time to think about it. “
Shepelev believes that everything is happening at the moment Plato very much. If the father sees that he gets tired, allows truancy. “I let him romp with great pleasure shalyu with him”, – he admitted leading.
Plato is engaged in gymnastics
– We just saw Jeanne in the body of the child … – said Andrey Malakhov.
– It’s true. I must say that exceptionally proud of him, – said Dmitry. – I never thought I’d feel that way here in the role of father. It is so calm, so gentle, so balanced and so smart, intelligent child, which probably can only dream of. This is quite an outstanding child, in my opinion. All parents praise their children … But I remain convinced that this is yet another reminder of Joan … Because I see it it. I can see in his fingers, in his eyes, in the way he talks …
Andrei Malakhov recalled an episode that ran in his memory, and now the thought of it in his eyes welling with tears – a chance meeting presenter of the program “Let them talk” with Dmitry and young Plato at the airport, when the father of the child carried away by the sea.
“You were completely dried out, you stayed on one skeleton – says Malakhov. – And a happy Plato, who, of course, that still does not suspect anything, in your lap, and the day comes to information that was not Joan. This scene is always before my eyes. My question is … I’m sorry I asked. But those last moments, when you are left alone with Jeanne … How did you feel that you have to disappear? “
It was obvious how hard Shepelevu given the answer to this question. Lost in thought, the man did some pause to gather strength to remember how it was and try to say it.
“It is very hard to talk about it – started Dmitry. – The day when … Doctors do not give up hope. Of course, none of them said that it will happen in a week or two, tomorrow or in a month. It is the unknown. All of a disease when it deadly, it is always the unknown. You never know what will happen tomorrow. You have to live only in the afternoon, and we have lived. “
Shepelev recalled that when he and Joan returned from the United States, in February 2015 year, the singer has just handed in her eyes. According to the broadcaster, it changes every day, and even then the doctors were convinced that a miracle will happen.
“Plato lived in the house with her, and I every morning and every evening spent with her. In the afternoon I went to work – continued Dmitry. – And one night, when we were able to be alone with her, suddenly Jeanne, which is almost all the time was unconscious, brightened. We’ve always been very comfortable with and we could not talk. We are keenly aware of each other always. Frankly, she had had no power at all to speak … She said, “I’m dying.” And it was our farewell. Four months before her death. “
Shepelev said that he lived with the rest of the time and did not tell anyone about this. For a long time the master criticized the fact that he took his son to the sea, while his beloved woman and mother of his child was dying. Many people found it outrageous act Shepeleva, who did not want to stay next to Jeanne in the last days of her life. Recalling this, the man insists that his aim was primarily to protect the child from severe emotional distress.
“It is not my fault that my mother was ill. Should he see his mother’s death? Should he see the tragedy in the eyes of the parents of Jeanne, my? Should he see my tears? Who can answer this question? We did not plan for the future life. I know the main thing: the child must be the childhood, the child must be summer. No one knew when it last farewell day. We have been told, long planned, and even a month before the tickets were purchased to the boy could go to sea. “
The narrative of the TV presenter and then interrupted, because, apparently, it would be hard to say. Man recalls the day before the departure of Joan and her son went to her room to say goodbye. “He loved to crawl on her bed, not hiding emotion said Dmitry. – Crawl on her, kissed her on the leg, arm and ran away. We were alone. Jeanne on his finger was a device that monitors the heart rate, breathing, it is some figures. When these figures are moving, it seems as if she is talking to you, responds to your words. I told her that her son should take to the sea and be back in a few days. I look at these figures, I want to hear her answer … And they did not move. We flew. “
The next day, the heart of Jeanne Friske has stopped. This happened in her parents’ house, in the country where the last few months the family was. Upon learning of the death of the woman he loved, Shepelev tried to fly back, but he was able to do it immediately, because it was difficult to get tickets in high season. The little son of Joan and then Dmitry Shepelev stayed with his father, who urgently flew to Bulgaria.
Andrei Malakhov also remembered Shepeleva book fragment, in which he talks about how he learned of the death of Joan. This news, as the man, told him Natasha Friske, the sister of the singer. In his work “Jeanne” Dmitri said, he received a sms with the words “Dana did not.” Sister actress, being in a state of shock, wrong letter when sending a message. This episode, according to the master program “Property of the Republic”, he dreamed over and over again. Asked if comes to him in a dream herself Jeanne, Dmitry said that this does not happen. “The only way for me to see Jeanne again – this hug her son,” – he said.
The studio program “Let them talk,” we are talking also about the missing millions that remained in the account of Jeanne Friske. These funds were raised all over the country for a few days, when the public became aware of her illness. Andrei Malakhov read an excerpt from the work of Dmitry Shepeleva, which said that a few days before the death of the singer’s money from the account disappeared. To dispose of them, according to Dmitry, could only Jeanne and her mother.
Leading “Let them talk” in conversation with Shepelev could not ignore the topic of communication young Plato with his grandparents. To everyone’s surprise, those who are over eighteen empathized family artist, who was unable to meet with his grandson, Dmitry said: “There has never been any restrictions on communication and grandparents with grandson. I understand that Joan’s parents have a piece of it, and they are close to Plato. Of course, I will be very happy if, after our conversation, you will hear a call, and Jeanne’s parents want to see her grandson. While this desire was not there. “
TV presenter emphasized that respect for the family of the woman he loves, but can not let them desecrate the memory of Jeanne, which, in his opinion, they do. This Shepelev said that in his own way sympathizes with them.
“I really would like to say that none of us has not been in place the parents of Jeanne. I can only imagine what monstrous pain experienced by these people. So neither I, no one else can not blame them. Everyone experiences pain differently. I can only imagine the pain experienced parents of Jeanne. I can only guess, I sympathize with them, “- said Shepelev.
Shepelev claims that Joan’s parents over the year and a half have not expressed a desire to see his grandson
In an interview with Andrey Malakhov Shepelev he recalled the period when Joan was much better. After treatment, the US passed the family went to Jurmala, where the singer was restored. Now about this period Dmitry recalls with a smile. He says it was a wonderful time when hope for the best was still.
“This is a very happy, and touching, and very painful episode. First and foremost, of course, he is happy. We talked a lot about how we want to get married, but always as a joke. We had nothing planned. It was a bright summer, when Jeanne vosprjala. She refused the wheelchair. She began again to look after themselves, flourished and started to become that Jeanne, whom everyone knew and that I love so much. “
According Shepeleva, the wedding they just joked law wife. But when the tablet lead began to appear randomly pictures of wedding dresses and rings, as his unit was synchronized with the phone Joan, he realized that we should not procrastinate. Pre-order in the US rings, Dmitry was fully committed to take this step.
“It was a day of Joan’s birth. I thought it was the best day and the best opportunity to make her an offer. I went into her bedroom, got up on one knee, said a few words and hesitated … We laughed and I asked: “You can start again,” I repeated the same things, and she replied: “I should think.” Then she wrote to me, “Yes.”
Leafing through the pages of the book Dmitry Shepelev Andrey Malakhov is stopped at the scene, which was very symbolic for them Jeanne. It was on that night, when they found out about her illness.
Leafing through the pages of the book Dmitry Shepelev Andrey Malakhov is stopped at the scene, which was very symbolic for them Jeanne. It was on that night, when they learned of Jeanne’s illness. “I went outside and saw a lizard. The hospital was located in the suburbs. On a huge vacant lot, flooded with asphalt, there were so many. One of these lizards, it seemed to me, paused and stopped me your opinion. It may seem silly, but Joan was such a small tattoo with these animals. I came in and said that while she was in the process, I almost fell in love with the lizard. Joan said, “She’s not your type.” We laughed a lot. “